Are you still waiting to claim your soul mate? Do any of the following scenarios strike a chord with you?
- You’ve been stuck with a string of Mr. or Mrs. Wrongs, one after another.
- You think you may have found your soul mate, but he or she just isn’t interested in committing or the timing has been off.
- You’ve been stuck with the same Mr. or Mrs. Wrong for a long time, and can’t seem to get out of the relationship.
- There don’t appear to be any Mr. or Mrs. Rights OR Wrongs anywhere, and you’ve been stuck with Mr. or Mrs. Nonexistent for a long time.
If any of those scenarios speak to you, listen up. I’m going to tell you the #1 reason why you haven’t yet landed your soul mate, if you’ve been wanting to. Those who are single and lovin’ it don’t really apply here.
So the reason is?
Yep, that’s all. Self-love. Or rather, I should say, the absence of self-love. Here’s why:
We live in a universe that is governed by something called the Law of Attraction. With the Law of Attraction, we get more of whatever we focus on and believe in, and less of what we don’t. We attract our expectations and beliefs about reality, and this is why the rich get richer, the poor get poorer and when it rains it pours.
When we don’t love ourselves, we make it impossible for the universe to deliver someone to us who loves us fully, and in the way we want to be loved.
When we don’t love ourselves, we project a message out into the universe that screams “I am unlovable!” and thus the universe responds by bringing back to us a reality where we feel unloved.
Instead of attracting a partner who fulfills us as a soul mate, we attract the wrong partner, or a partner who won’t commit, or no partner at all.
So, if you’ve been struggling to find your soul mate, my suggestion would be to invest in loving yourself more. Look for things you like about yourself, build yourself up, and be your biggest cheerleader in life. Be kind to yourself, and treat yourself exactly the way you would expect the perfect mate to treat you.
Send a message to the universe that you are lovable and the Law of Attraction will respond in turn. It is law.
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About the author:
Andrea Schulman is a former high school psychology teacher and the creator of Raise Your Vibration Today, which provides free and easy Law of Attraction techniques. She will be available for group educational seminars and webinars starting in the summer of 2015.